This week’s Two for Tuesdays suggestion comes straight from my friend, Nancy Myrland of Myrland Marketing – Strategic Social Media, who has two tips for what we should avoid doing when speaking with clients – and these are excellent ones. These are bad habits that we’ve all gotten into (not just with clients, but in general), and I’m certainly guilty myself! 

Tip One: Don’t Interrupt – Let Them Finish Their Thoughts

Ah, interrupting. I’m terrible about this. I’m a bit like the word predictor on my iPhone, where I’m three steps ahead, thinking that I know what the other person is going to say, and I start answering them before they’re finished saying it. 

Not only is it terribly rude, but I’m not always right about where the conversation is going. And I’m making it about me – I’m in too much of a rush, and I’m thinking too many steps ahead to let them finish their thoughts. 

So although it’s difficult, let’s work on pausing. Wait until the person you’re speaking with has finished their thought…completely. I’ll work on it too. It will make us better listeners, which will in turn make us better advocates for our clients. How can we properly do our jobs if we don’t get all the facts, because we’re too busy butting in?

Continue Reading Two for Tuesdays: What NOT to do When Speaking with a Client

On Friday, I received an email from someone I don’t know – like everyone, I get LOTS of these, but this one struck me. He must read my blog, because he mentions it in his note. He even manages to spell my name correctly. 

However, the purpose for his email is to tell me about this blog post he wrote, to suggest that I use it as the subject matter of a blog post, and that I tweet out his link to my Twitter followers. In fact, he goes so far as to mention that his is a topic worthwhile of discussion by the entire legal blogosphere. Really?

Well, I’m certainly not biting.

And why not? Perhaps his article is interesting, even provocative. Perhaps I will have something to say in response, or thoughts to add.  But for me, he’s broken a cardinal rule, and asked for a favor without having any relationship equity at all. 

Relationship and social equity are things we’ve talked about here before – we’ve defined "social equity" as "how you build your credibility online to increase your perceived value by others." So, by extension, I would say that relationship equity is how you build your credibility in general to increase your perceived value.  Further, the more relationship equity you have, the stronger the bond is. 

 

Continue Reading Building Relationship Equity *Must* Come First

We’re thrilled to announce this month’s Firm of the Month, Dej Udom & Associates, Thailand! 

   

 

 Member of the International Lawyers Network

The ILN is proud to announce our latest "Firm of the Month" – Dej Udom & Associates of Bangkok, Thailand!

Founded in 1986, Dej-Udom & Associates is an independent law firm in Thailand that provides legal services to a diverse client base, which ranges from leading multinational corporations to local companies and individuals. Led by Dej-Udom Krairit, the firm consists of 35 Thai lawyers and a supporting staff of over 40 paralegals, assistants, and secretaries who deliver professional legal services to clients who value expert counsel and astute representation coupled with realistic billing policies and personal contact and attention. A solely-owned Thai law firm located in Bangkok, Dej-Udom & Associates provides partner-led service in the practice areas of Litigation, Immigration & Employment, Intellectual Property, Corporate Law and Services, Taxation, and Financial Markets and Investment, and also offers specialized regional advice on the upcoming ASEAN Economic Community integration.

Full descriptions of Dej Udom & Associates’ services, expertise, and lawyer profiles are available on their ILN profile.

Lindsay Griffiths
Director of Global Relationship Management
International Lawyers Network

Lindsay Griffiths

 

Learn More

 

Main Contacts: 

Dej-Udom Krairit

Dej-Udom Krairit

Email: dej-udom@dejudom.com
Telephone: +66 2233-0055

Practice Groups:
Taxation, Intellectual Property, Arbitration

Worawut Krairit

Worawut Krairit

Emailworawut@dejudom.com
Telephone: +66 2233-0055

Practice Groups:
Taxation, Consumer Protection, Government

 
Alan Griffiths

Dej-Udom & Associates have been a member firm for almost 20 years and we are grateful for their commitment and dedication to the Network.

Alan Griffiths
Executive Director
International Lawyers Network

+001.201.594.9985

www.ilntoday.com

 

Before I get underway with this week’s Two for Tuesdays, I have to say how saddened I am over the loss of Robin Williams. My thoughts are with his friends and family at this impossibly difficult time.  He brought us such joy, showed us how to be kind and giving, and will be so deeply missed by so many.

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On a much lighter note, last night, I had the good fortune to be able to attend the New York premiere of The Giver, the movie adaptation of the book by the same name from author Lois Lowry.  I’ve never been to a movie premiere before (I was able to get tickets by fundraising for arts charities through the Weinstein Group), so I was keen to see how it all would go.

It was a lovely event, and I was tickled to see the stars up close – Meryl Streep, Jeff Bridges, Katie Holmes, Taylor Swift, Brenton Thwaites, Odeya Rush, and Cameron Monaghan were all there (missing, unfortunately, was my main reason for being there, the handsome and charismatic Alexander Skarsgard, who is currently filming in England. So if you know him, please feel free to give him my number. I am not joking.). 

Continue Reading Two for Tuesdays: Business Lessons from The Giver Movie Premiere

Some of the ILN’s greatest success stories are seen when multiple member firms coordinate and collaborate to service each others’ clients. The most recent example of this occurred when the ILN’s member in Missouri, Lewis, Rice & Fingersh, L.C. required a consultation with a number of Latin American jurisdictions regarding privacy laws. Together with Alan Griffiths, the ILN’s Executive Director, Luis Lavalle Moreno of Martinez, Algaba, De Haro, Curiel y Galvan-Duque, S.C. of Mexico spearheaded the effort.

The two contacted and coordinated with member firms in the target regions, including Cordero & Cordero Abogados in Costa Rica and Aninat Schwencke & Cia in Chile. ILN members also assisted in connecting Lewis Rice with other contacts in the region where the ILN is not currently represented, to ensure that the client’s needs were met quickly and professionally. Luis Lavalle Moreno shared that: 

It was a very good experience, because we were able to review and work together with all of the jurisdictions in a very specific issue of law having to do with privacy laws."

Stan Johnston of Lewis Rice & Fingersh, L.C. added that

The ILN was essential in finding and coordinating counsel in 11 jurisdictions throughout Latin America. We have found a very valuable resource in the Martinez Algaba firm, and look forward to working with Luis Lavalle Moreno in the future."

The ability for member firms in multiple jurisdictions to pool their collective experience under one coordinating body is a significant benefit in meeting clients’ needs on a global scale.

Well, August is finally here – this gal loves the cooler temps of the fall, pumpkin spiced lattes, sweaters, and falling leaves, so August is not my favorite month.  But it’s a good one to take advantage of.  A LOT of people take their vacations in August – and for those of us with a lot of European clients, August can be a pretty quiet month if you’re stuck sitting at your desk. 

So now is the time to tackle anything that may fall to the wayside once September hits and things pick up again.  And that’s where this week’s Two for Tuesdays comes in.

Tip One: Make a Change

August is a good time to look around you and see what may not be working so well, and this can take a number of different tacks…

Continue Reading Two for Tuesdays: Make the Most out of Your August

Welcome to ILN-terviews, a series of profiles of ILN member firm attorneys, designed to give a unique insight into the lawyers who make up our Network. For our latest interview, we’re continuing our Instagram video series!

Each of the videos below answers the questions that precede it – Ágnes Bejó of Jalsovszky Law Firm in Budapest is the subject of our second set of videos!

In one sentence, how would you describe your practice?

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What would you like clients and potential clients to know about you? 

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What has been your proudest moment as a lawyer? 

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What would surprise people most about you? 

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What career would you have chosen if you weren’t a lawyer? 

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How would you like to be remembered? 

The weather is finally beautiful here on this Two for Tuesdays – low humidity and low heat, just the way I like it! 

Another thing I like, as you may know, is LinkedIn. Our first Two for Tuesdays post offered two tips for LinkedIn, and there’s so much to gain from it that I’m back to bring you two more! The first post focused mostly on what changes you could make to your profile, while today, we’ll look at what you should be doing in terms of your usage of LinkedIn.

Tip One: Make it Effortless

The first few years I was using LinkedIn, I had to try to remember to check it periodically. I was mostly reminded any time I would get an invitation from someone to connect (or if someone accepted my invitation), but otherwise, it certainly wasn’t at the top of my mind. I’d wager that that’s the case for busy lawyers and marketing professionals as well. 

Continue Reading Two for Tuesdays: More LinkedIn

This afternoon, I was reading an article on four suggestions for rules to follow when networking internationally.  The tips are good ones (and we’ll go into more on them in a moment), but it occurred to me as I was reading that they’re actually quite good tips for all types of networking – whether you’re meeting people from other cultures, or just two blocks away. 

The author of the article, Pierre Brais, puts these in a certain order, but I’m going to prioritize them a bit differently. For me, everything starts with "Do your homework." 

Do Your Homework

Whether you’re meeting someone in your own city, or from a city halfway around the world, it pays to do your homework: on the individual, on their business, and on the culture. With so much information available online these days, there’s no excuse for not being adequately prepared.  Before meeting someone, take some time to search for their name online – look through their LinkedIn profile, and find out what outside interests they might have, the types of responsibilities that fall under their purview at their current position, and what other organizations they may have worked for and with. 

Continue Reading Let’s Be a Little More International in Our Networking