Last week, I woke up with a migraine and a heavy heart.

If I’m honest, I was also angry. Very angry.

In part, that’s because I saw people – especially those with privilege and platforms – suddenly speaking out in defense of the rule of law, urging others to join them. And listen, that matters. It matters a lot.

But the first thing that I wondered was: Where have you been?

For years, I’ve been speaking out in support of diversity and inclusion – not just professionally, but personally, on my own time and channels. This isn’t a pat on the back, because I wasn’t early to this party, like those who have had to fight their entire lives and for generations – this is a call IN to you who are just joining the party.

Lately, I’ve been quieter, not because I don’t still care, but because I’ve been afraid.

I’m terrified for the safety of my queer friends. For first-generation Americans. For trans colleagues. For people who have always had to fight for their right to exist safely. And yes, for myself too.

Because when you are trans or queer or a person of color or a woman or an immigrant – sometimes it’s not just your job that you risk by speaking out. It’s your physical safety. Your family’s privacy. Your freedom.

So, yes, I welcome the growing voices defending the rule of law. They are necessary. I’m relieved to see more people raising their hands and saying “This matters.”

But I also hope that those voices will turn around and look at who’s been carrying this burden alone for far too long – and what more they can do. Because the rule of law doesn’t only need defending when powerful institutions like law firms are under attack. It needs defending when our colleagues worry about accessing healthcare, keeping their children, or simply walking down the street safely.

This isn’t a scolding. It’s an invitation.

If you’ve just found your voice – welcome, truly. We’re glad you’re here.

But please know that for many, the stakes have always been high. So instead of asking, “Where is everyone else?” Ask: How can I use my voice to stand with them, too?

Let’s make this moment more than performative – let’s make it collective.

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This post reflects my personal views, not those of my organization. While I lead a global legal network, and much of my advocacy centers around inclusion in the profession, this message comes from me, as someone who believes deeply in the rule of law — and in ensuring it protects all of us, not just the privileged few.