Regular readers of my blog may be shocked when they read the title of this post – am I really suggesting that you should make relationship-building all about you?
Yes and no.
For the purposes of this post, let’s separate out the "you" and "them" of relationship-building. When you’re building relationships, the content has to be all about the other person:
- You let the other person do most of the talking, and you do most of the listening.
- You ask pointed questions about what is of interest to them.
- The content you share online and off is directed at what is most useful to your audience.
- You’re sharing some of your own content, but mostly others’, because that’s what’s most useful to those you want to connect with.
- You’re constantly revising your efforts to make sure they continue to be in line with what your audience/targets needs and wants.



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